Discovery Call Questions for Coaches: Qualify Before You Pitch
The discovery call questions a coach should ask, grouped by job: situation, goal, what they've tried, budget, and who decides, plus how answers feed follow-up.

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- What is a discovery call for?
- What should a coach ask on a discovery call?
- In what order should you ask them?
- What does a discovery call script look like?
- How do you know if a lead is qualified?
- What should the application form and pre-call emails collect?
- How do the call answers feed your follow-up?
- What questions should you avoid?
- When does this not apply?
- Where should you start?
Ask questions in five groups, in this order: their situation, their goal, what they've tried, their budget, and who makes the decision. Only present your offer once they've told you what's in the way and said they want to fix it now. Hayes Media, an agency that builds email and SMS systems, wrote this for coaches, course creators, and consultants who sell on calls.
Two terms first. Show rate is calls attended divided by calls booked. Close rate is sales divided by calls attended. Discovery questions work on close rate: they decide whether the people who turn up hear an offer that fits what they told you.
What is a discovery call for?
A discovery call finds out whether you can help this person before you offer anything. It has two jobs. The first is to qualify: do they have a problem you solve, do they want it fixed now, can they pay, and can they decide. The second is to set up the close, so that by the end both of you can say what they want, what's in the way, and what it costs them to leave it, in their own words.
If you pitch before you know those things, you're guessing which part of your offer matters to them. The questions are how you stop guessing.
This piece covers the call itself. Getting booked leads to turn up is in our guide to raising your sales call show rate, and what to send after a call that didn't close is in our guide to follow-up emails after a sales call.
What should a coach ask on a discovery call?
Hayes Media groups discovery call questions by the job each one does: situation, goal, what they've tried, budget, and decision. You don't need every question below. You need at least one answer from each group before you present the offer.
Situation: where are they now?
What made you book this call now? Something changed for them to book today and not last month. The answer tells you how urgent this is and gives you the words they'll respond to later.
Walk me through where things are today. Let them describe it. If they filled in your form, use it instead: "You wrote [their answer]. Tell me more about that." They'll know you read it, and you skip the basics.
What does a normal week look like for you? This tells you whether they have the time your program asks for. It's better to find that out now than in week two.
Goal: what do they want instead?
If this worked, what would be different for you? Get a picture they can describe, such as a fuller client list or a calmer week, not a vague "more".
Why does that matter to you? If the answer is still a number or a task, ask once more. You're looking for the reason they'd act on, because that's what you'll play back to them before the offer.
What happens if nothing changes? Let them say the cost of standing still in their own words. You'll use it in the playback before the offer.
What they've tried: why hasn't it worked yet?
What have you already tried? Courses, books, other coaches, doing it alone. This tells you what they'll compare you to.
What worked, even a little, and what didn't? The part that worked shows you what they're capable of. The part that didn't shows you what your offer has to do differently.
Why do you think it didn't stick? Listen closely here. If they say they ran out of time, time is the objection you'll face at the close. You've heard it before the pitch, so you can answer it inside the offer.
Budget: can they pay for a fix?
Have you set aside a budget to solve this? Ask it plainly, before you present anything. A price that lands with no context is easier to say no to than one they saw coming.
When you've invested in help before, how did you pay for it? This tells you whether a payment plan matters to them, without asking them to name a number they're not ready to say.
If they ask what it costs, tell them. Dodging it makes the price feel like something you're hiding.
Decision: who decides, and when?
Who else is part of this decision? If a partner or business partner has a say, you want to know now. You can offer a short call with both of them instead of hearing "I need to talk to my partner" at the end.
How do you usually make a decision like this? Some people decide on the call. Some sleep on it. Knowing which lets you set up the next step they'll actually take.
If this is a fit, when would you want to start? A start date they name is something you can follow up on. "Someday" tells you the urgency isn't there yet.
If it's a fit, is there anything that would stop you from starting? Ask this last, just before the offer. Whatever they say is the final objection, and it's better to hear it while you're both still on the call.
In what order should you ask them?
Situation first, decision last, and the offer only after all five. Each group builds on the one before it. A goal means more once you know where they are today, and a budget question feels fair once they've said what the problem costs them.
Ask one question, then stop talking. If you ask two at once, they can answer the easier one and skip the other. Write down their exact words, because you'll use them twice: once at the end of the call, and again in your follow-up.
Before you present anything, play it back: "So you want [their goal]. [What's in the way] is stopping you, you've tried [what they tried], and you and [the other decision-maker] would decide. Did I get that right?" If they correct you, you've just saved yourself a pitch aimed at the wrong problem. If they say yes, ask whether they'd like to hear how you'd help.
What does a discovery call script look like?
Here's a simple discovery call script. Use it as a running order, not lines to read out.
The opening. "Thanks for making the time. Here's how I'd like to use it. I'll ask you some questions about where you are and what you want. If I think I can help, I'll tell you how, and if I can't, I'll tell you that too. Does that work for you?" Saying how the call ends takes away the worry of being trapped in a pitch, and it matches what your pre-call email already promised.
The questions. One or two from each of the five groups, in order, using what they wrote on the form.
The playback. Their goal, what's in the way, what they've tried, budget, and who decides, in their words. Then: "Did I get that right?"
The permission. "Would it help if I showed you how I'd work on this with you?"
The offer. Only the parts that fix what they told you. If they never mentioned accountability, don't spend time on your weekly check-ins.
The ask. "Based on what you've told me, I think this is a fit. Do you want to go ahead?" Then stop talking and let them answer.
How do you know if a lead is qualified?
A qualified lead has four things: a problem you solve, a reason to fix it now, a way to pay, and the power to decide. The five groups of questions find each one.
If one is missing, say so. "It sounds like now isn't the right time" is kinder than a pitch they can't act on, and it keeps the door open. If you can't help them at all, tell them plainly, and point them somewhere useful if you can. Then don't follow up to sell.
What should the application form and pre-call emails collect?
The facts, so the call can spend its time on the reasons. If your form already asks what they want, what they've tried, and what's in the way, the call shouldn't ask those cold again. Quote their answer back and go one level deeper. Here's how the work splits by group.
Situation. The form collects their current situation in a sentence or two. The call asks what made them book now.
Goal. The form collects what they want. The call asks why it matters and what happens if nothing changes.
What they've tried. The form collects what they've tried. The call asks why it didn't stick.
Budget. If you screen people before they can book, add a budget question with ranges to the form. If everyone can book, leave budget for the call.
Decision. The call covers this. Your pre-call email can mention it, so the question doesn't come as a surprise: "On the call I'll ask about your budget and who else is part of the decision, so we can work out together whether this is a fit."
Keep the form short enough that serious people finish it. Every field should be one you'll actually use on the call. Ask for a mobile number with a clear, unticked box for text reminders, and only text the people who tick it. The confirmation email can ask them to reply with the one thing they most want to fix, and that reply is your opening question, already answered. We map every sequence around the call in our guide to email marketing for coaches, and what should happen the moment a form lands is in our guide to speed to lead.
How do the call answers feed your follow-up?
Write the answers down in their words and save them where your email platform can use them. Hayes Media treats the discovery call as the step that writes your follow-up emails, because the lead tells you what to say. Record six things after every call that didn't close.
Their goal. In their words, for the recap email.
What's in the way. Also in their words, for the same email.
What they've tried. So you never suggest something they told you already failed.
The objection. As a tag, such as price, timing, partner, or doubt. Later emails speak to that reason instead of guessing.
Who decides. If a partner is involved, your follow-up should include something they can share.
The date they named. Follow up on that date, and keep them on your regular emails until then.
Here's a worked example with made-up numbers. In one month you run 20 calls that don't close on the day. When you count the tags, 9 say partner, 6 say price, and 5 say timing. That pattern tells you to move a question earlier. Ask who else is part of the decision on the form, and invite the partner to the call. The answers from this month's calls change the questions on next month's.
What questions should you avoid?
Leading questions. "Wouldn't it be great if you had a full calendar?" gives you a yes that means nothing. Ask what they want and let them say it.
Stacked questions. Two questions in one sentence let them answer the easier one and skip the other. Ask one, then wait.
Questions the form already answered. Asking again tells them nobody read it. Quote it back instead.
Questions you won't use. If an answer won't change your offer or your follow-up, cut the question and give the time to the ones that will.
When does this not apply?
Referral calls. Someone a client sent already trusts you and knows why they're there. You can spend less time on situation and more on fit.
Existing clients. Renewal and upgrade calls start from what you already know. Ask what's changed since they started, then make the offer.
Courses sold on a checkout page. With no call, these questions move into your sales page, your FAQ, and your welcome emails. Each objection you'd hear on a call needs an answer there instead.
Clear no-fit leads. If the form shows you can't help them, don't book the call just to be polite. Tell them, and save both of you the time.
Where should you start?
Take your last few calls that didn't close and check which of the five groups you skipped. Start with the group that matches the objection you heard at the end: a price objection points to budget, and a partner objection points to decision. Add one question from that group to your next calls, and add the answer to your notes and tags.
Hayes Media's published case studies are eCommerce, and we haven't published results for coaches or info businesses, so treat this as mechanism and advice. If you want a second pair of eyes on what happens around your sales calls, we'll audit your application form, pre-call emails, and follow-up against these questions and mark the gaps. Book a discovery call. No onboarding fees. No lock-in contracts. No junior marketers.
Frequently asked questions
- What questions should you ask on a discovery call?
- Ask in five groups, in order: their situation, their goal, what they've tried, their budget, and who makes the decision. Ask one question at a time and write down their exact words. Before you present any offer, play back what you heard and check you got it right. Only pitch once they've said what's in the way and that they want to fix it now.
- What is a discovery call script?
- It's a running order for the call, not lines to read. Open by saying how the call works and that you'll tell them if you can't help. Ask your questions, play back their answers in their words, ask permission to share how you'd help, present only the parts that fit, then ask if they want to go ahead and wait for the answer.
- Should you ask about budget on a discovery call?
- Yes, before you present the offer. Ask plainly whether they've set aside a budget to solve this, and how they've paid for help before, so you know whether a payment plan matters. If you screen leads before they can book, put a budget question with ranges on the form instead. If they ask what it costs, tell them.
- How do you qualify a lead on a discovery call?
- Check for four things: a problem you solve, a reason to fix it now, a way to pay, and the power to decide. The situation and goal questions find the problem and the urgency, the budget questions find the money, and the decision questions find who else has a say. If one is missing, say so plainly instead of pitching.
- What should you do with discovery call answers after the call?
- Record them in the lead's words and save them where your email platform can use them: their goal, what's in the way, what they've tried, the objection as a tag, who decides, and any start date they named. Your recap email quotes them back, later emails answer the tagged objection, and you follow up on the date they gave you.
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